Secret to Getting Your Ex to Return Your Calls

Before we start with the actual technique, let’s look at what almost never works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY-

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

Curiosity &
Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"

"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

Please have a follow-up strategy BEFORE you call. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

I suggest you read this book to get the proper strategy in place www.magicofmakingup.com. Its the best $39 I've ever spent for my relationship.

Hope you get your loved one back.

Gary