Does it Feel like WORK Meeting Women? - Part I
Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.
In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.
...I just had a client who often complained of "extroversion fatigue."
I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.
Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
I would take a break and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home absolutely dead
... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
Does it make sense to you???
As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!
I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym
I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.
If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.
In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.
...I just had a client who often complained of "extroversion fatigue."
I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.
Before I started to teach myself about pick-up, and then found myself being mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
I would take a break and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home absolutely dead
... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
Does it make sense to you???
As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!
I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym
I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.
If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is a professional dating guru, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has to say about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
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