Saturday, July 12, 2008

One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

By Vin DiCarlo

First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.

You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.

However, in any bar, club, or even a day-time situation, there are LOTS of horny women who would be open to getting down with you that same day or night. You just have to know how to spot these women.

The things that I look in spotting them are in the way how they dressed, how much make-up they put on their face and other things that relates to how they look physically. Remember that there is a reason why women exert a lot of effort in order to look beautiful.

They want to be approached. This of course, isn't always true, but is generally the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.

Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This is against her "rules" and will force her to keep you at a distance. You're also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some will and some won't, and what you should know is to figure out and proceed to get them.

You don't want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.

It will just be a waste of time.

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