How to Fall in Love Again

By Susan Anderson

People often vividly recall the first time they met their partner. Did you immediately connect with special chemistry? Have you both settled in a dull routine by default?

You miss that excitement of falling in love, but yet you don't want to leave your partner. The love you both built together is still there, but needs some refreshing new ideas to make it more stimulating. Look at your partner in a different light, like you just met them for the first time.

* Get some flirting going, laugh, smile...joke around together. Nothing is more desirable than someone flirting a little then holding back. Then, find something else to do, leaving them wondering if they want more from you later.

* Don't inform your ex or your partner know your whereabouts all the time. Nothing is more attractive than someone who is involved in their career, classes, responsibilities, and other activities with friends. This is not playing games with your ex, it's just living your life.

* Try to look your most attractive. If you want, get a flattering new hairstyle, makeup (if you're a woman). Work out or get some kind of exercise---as this will reflect in your energy level. You will come across as more energetic and sexy to your ex or significant other.

* Learn to listen to your ex or partner when you meet. Nothing is more sexy than a good listener, and your partner will notice. Show some kindness, and talk about the time when you met and how that affected you.

Remember to give your relationship some time to build back to the way it was when you first connected. It will take time--but let them see you from occasionally around other people but make sure you let your ex know that you want to be together. Your partner will look forward to your next meetings together.

If you are apart now, realize that it takes time to rebuild the relationship you had together. One of the worst things someone can do is be a pest, stalker, or appear hopelessly impulsive. Relax, be patient, and show your love.

Whether you are still living together or separately, remember that rebuilding a love relationship is a special task. Both of you must be emotionally invested in it, and if you are patient you can fall in love again.

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